The happiness we get when we are in a relationship with someone can’t be compared with anything in this world. When we are in a relationship we are in a weird bubble of happiness and love and no matter what we can’t get out of this bubble until the relationship gets over because of some reason.
Every relationship hits a hard patch at some point and while some survive down the road some just can’t make it through. This is the time when we sit and think and decide whether we want to spend the rest of our life with this person or not. Sometimes a long-term relationship comes to a sudden halt because of some things and this the time when we feel that our world has stopped. Nothing around us makes sense anymore. Nothing seems to make us happy.
Breaking up with someone who you considered to be the love of your life is the hardest thing one has to go through. Breakup doesn’t hurt just one person, it is bound to hurt the two of you and it will destroy both the worlds equally. But then life goes on and you have to deal with the bitter truth of your life which is that you are no longer together and the relationship is over.
I know it is a tough road to walk on. I have walked on it and I know how my world came crashing into pieces. But one thing I realised is that it is best to take the time we need and to just get over with it. You will find a better person, you will fall in love again, you will feel those butterflies in your stomach again and this time when it happens you will know what you want and what you don’t. You will know what mistakes you need to avoid this time and you will know what kind of person will be good for you.
If you are trying to deal with a breakup right now and looking for some advice here are some advice from the Redditors.
Remember the reason.
Take your time.
Improve things for the future.
Find the 'different' now.
'Out of sight, Out of mind'
Know when to walk away.
You will find love again.
Keep yourself occupied.
Be selfish and think about yourself now.
You will have to find closure yourself.
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